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Pissed Off…eekK!

25 June 2009 530 views 2 Comments

Tonight someone got pissed.
Yep, at a church family gathering, someone got pissed.
It happens to the best of us.
We’re human.

However, later the person replied to me with this statement:

Don’t trip, we cool man. I’m a grown up, I’ll get over it

My response was this:

I think as guys we’ve been raised in the idea that we get pissed, then get over it and move on. I just however, completely disagree with this whole logic. If two people are upset or pissed, or just one of them, the healthy thing to do is to talk about it, communicate. That way through communication the future won’t be dictated by unknowns or uncommunicated misunderstandings, but more so on truth AND understanding made possible by communication.

My question to everyone is simple, and I’d like a response in the comments.

How do you handle being pissed off at someone?

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  • vagabondrunn (author) said:

    I will be the first to say that while what I quoted myself saying above is how I would like to handle being pissed most of the time.
    It isn't.
    Most of the time if I am pissed at you, I'll treat you like crap and make you feel REALLY REALLY small.
    If you're reading this and I've treated you like crap or belittled you, I am sorry.
    I'm a jerk.

  • Michael said:

    Hey, have you seen this news article?
    New details about Michael Jackson’s Death Emerge
    I was wondering if you were going to blog about this…

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